Stop Beating Yourself Up

This is just one of those days where I feel like blogging . There has been so much going on in my life . I live , I love , I laugh . It's funny how sometimes I try to make people feel okay , when I myself ? Am a total mess . I have no idea what to do with my life . That's just one of the saddest things in life to be going through . A few weeks ago , I met people . People who showed me a different part of life . They make me happy . Everytime I hangout with them , I feel safe . I don't know why . Life is hard at times when you have to decide whether you'd do bad or good . You have to choose . Either way , it's YOUR life . You're the one who's gonna face the consequences by the end of the day . It's amazing how I've changed in this past few years . I've finally learned to let go of the past COMPLETELY . Letting go is one of the best things you could do that could lead you to a healthy life . I know how most of you would think that when I say "letting go" I was referring to my ex . But no , you need to see everything in a whole different perspective . Letting go can mean that you're letting go of a bad habit . Ex: Procrastinating . Drinking . Smoking . It can also mean letting go of your sadness or the people causing the sadness . Lost someone this year over a disease ? Make a campaign . A cancer awareness campaign maybe ? I don't know . Just go and get motivated sweetie . Be productive . Are you still crying late at night because of that stupid jerk that played you ? STOP . Be wise , you're beautiful . There are millions of guys out there waiting for you . Someone somewhere out there is waiting for you . There are hundreds and thousands of countries that you haven't even been to . Paris , Milan , Turkey , Seoul , Italy , Germany , Australia , New York , London , Canada , Auckland , New Zealand , Netherlands , Switzerland , Norway , Denmark . See what I mean ? So why are you still sitting there crying for someone from your small town who clearly doesn't even care about you ? When you CLEARLY have a lot more places to go explore . Life's too short to be stupid . Love isn't everything . Hey , I'm still single yet I'm still living aren't I ? Don't sacrifice yourself for someone who doesn't know how to appreciate you . You need to appreciate yourself first . Find who you are . The real you . Be true to yourself . Never rush into relationships that you'll regret . Be in a relationship that makes you a better person . Not the one who goes to bed crying your eyes out and not even know why you were crying on the first place . Be that person who's strong enough to stand by their own . Be mature enough to make good decisions . Be confident . Be selfish sometimes . Be the person that could be brave enough to show people that they can't hurt you without your permission . Be wise . Choose the right path . Never sink yourself in a dark path . You're better than you know . You were born for a reason . Make that reason come true .